If your his/her partner...

• Is isolating them from family & friends 
• Physically hurting them in any way 
• Is constantly putting them down or calling them names
• Is extremely jealous
• Engages in controlling behavior and sets rules 
• Has an explosive temper 
• Makes false accusations 
• Has mood swings 
• Is possessive 
• Is telling them what to do, what to wear, or even how to act 
• Has checked their cell phone, email, or social media accounts without their permission, 
• Is constantly checking up on them to know where they are/ who they are with

Advocacy does not always involve protesting in the streets and making your voice heard, sometimes advocacy can be quiet, subtle, and simply require one-on-one support. By simply supporting someone in their time of need you become their advocate.

To help someone who is a victim of abuse, you must create a safe space so they can feel free to have open, candid conversations with you. This means when you're talking to them you must be compassionate, supportive, non-judgmental, and understanding. 

Please note your job is not to intervene but to provide support. Trying to insert yourself in the matter can potentially make things worse. 

Use credible sources to educate yourself so you can know how to recognize the signs of abuse and how to help them create a safety plan. You can also research relevant resources and services that can help your friend/family member/mentee when they're ready to get help. 

Need help? We'd be glad to help you get the support you need to help your friend/family member/mentee/student.